Sometimes, we realize what we’ve lost and are ready to be whatever we need to be to get it back. Of all of the reasons a man might reappear, this is the most rare. Sometimes, without us really realizing, a woman can carve out perfectly round a little space in our hearts and lives. We leave her, thinking she’ll be the only one who experiences any loss, but, really, we lose too.
1. HE MISSES YOU: This might sound so sweet, but it is definitely not a good reason to jump in bed with him. It is normal to miss someone and it is part of the grieving and recovery process of getting over an ex. If you end up having intimate relation with them again, the process begins all over again.
2. YOU ARE AVAILABLE: Well, it’s obvious that the ex is always available and if anyone is looking for a quick lay, the ex is the first point of call. The ideal thing to do is to prevent compromising situations such as spending private moments with them, having more drinks than you can take or answering their late night calls.
3. YOU ARE FAMILIAR: The fact that you know them so well and you have absolutely no reason whatsoever to impress them, figure out the things they like or go ballistic with their fantasies makes it easier to have uncomplicated intimate relation with your ex.
These things hold true for both of you as being with a familiar body you know in and out is appealing even though you have it at the back of your mind that it won’t last. Having it with your ex will surely not make you get over them, neither will it help you start a fresh relationship with someone else.